I lost my wife 12/19/11. I know I'm not the only one that has gone throught this but I feel like I am. I don't want to go throught the details of the circumstances of what happened but it was very suden. I thought I might reach out to anyone that has gone throught this. I met my wife when I was 16. I am now 51. I don't know if I can reply to anyone that may reply but I do appriciate any words of comfort.