Ditto this...the 'wedding' itself is the small part of the marriage...it's the marriage, the long-term relationship, that truly matters!Just understand that later you WILL regret it. But often times that regret is offset by the joy you get from what you spent the cash on.
And on the other hand. Please take this unsolicited advice from the bottom of my heart. Don't waste your money on a fancy, elaborate wedding. 20 years on you two will look back and see that it really didn't matter. What truly matters is the two of you and the pastor, in the moment. In my case we spent a whopping $800 on our wedding and would do it all over again in a heartbeat. MiL sewed the wife's gown, We had the bridesmaids buy dresses they liked and would wear again and I bought ties for the groomsmen to match the corresponding dresses and they wore their own suits. Family pitched in and cooked the reception food and we had it in our church's gym, which we got for free for being members. a friend (the guy who introduced us) DJ'd. Of course being Methodist it was a dry reception, so we had an after party at the in-laws and got plastered, literally put too many in the hot tub making it overflow, etc.
I can't imagine doing it any other way.
That's often my deciding factor...can I replace it again if I ever wanted to?As others have said, our shooting hobby is only part of a fuller life. I'm not familiar with the gun in question but it sounds like the gun is a standard shotgun with no special production status or sentimental value ... and it doesn't fit you well. That would be a relatively easy decision for me. Where I get wrapped iupp is over a gun that if sold, I'd have a very hard time replacing - like my S&W 625 in 45 ACP. I bought it new over 20 years ago and have never fired it. I know (things were busy)! I have since transitioned to shooting primarily semi autos and have been slowly (over years) thinning out my collection of revolvers. I'm down to 3 - but none of them are made any longer so I've been reluctant to part with them. Good luck with your decision
I was in that situation with a Saiga semi auto mag fed 12 gauge. I had several 12 gauges so I sold that one since it was so high dollar. I have not regretted it.For anyone that has sold anything they knew the chances of getting back in the future were slim, did you regret it ?
2 years ago I traded up and got the shotgun . Benelli M4 it has everything I would want/need in a shotgun . However I have only shot it during one range session and have four 12g’s total and tbh the magpul stock on my 870 fits me better than the stock on the M4.
Wanting to do my best to cash flow my wedding next year and this is one of my higher end guns that I’m least partial too. So a portion of the funds would be going there.
Just wanted to hear some feedback.