Yesterday we had a "Zoom visitation" for my aunt who passed away last Sunday.
My "rarely masked" cousin, her husband, and their adopted son moved in with her a few weeks ago. My cousin and her husband sold their house and needed out "now". Of course, since they are "rarely masked" - because this is all a big sham, you know, contracted Covid-19. And while still ill, they moved in with my HIGH RISK aunt. Aunt was fine for a handful of days, then started developing symptoms.
It wasn't long before she had to go to the hospital and then into the ICU. A few more days later - she was intubated. Then she died a few days after that due to total renal failure.
So - Thanks a lot, dear cousin. Your actions directly lead to the death of your own mother - my aunt. And one of my favorite people. Good on you.
Also - my sister in law somehow got it. Despite being a Work-in-home-mom. They have FIVE kids. The youngest are just a bit over 1 year old (twins). The other 3 are in school. We think that one of the kids brought it home, asymptomatically. So mom has been in their master suite for about 10 days now while dad's been forced to stay home and care for the kids. He's tyring to work from home...but with 5 littles, it's virtually impossible. And last I heard, his 02 sats were down to 94 or so. So HE probably has it. (They have a pulse/ox meter at home that one other of their kids needs to sleep with due to her own special needs).
So if HE gets worse... Who'll care for the kids? My wife said if HE gets it - then she will be going up. Which means that she'll probably get it and have to quarantine there for...a month? That won't be cool at all. She's got her own other issues to deal with.
Wow. There might be some reality there that some of them just don't want to face. Sorry for you loss. There does not seem to be much sense to be had in all of that.