Feeling Lost

[SkullDaddy.45]

If you sound in real life like your posts sound in my head when I read them, someday I wanna meet you just to hear you ***** about something!!
/threadjack

Be careful JetGirl, maybe it's a way to meet chicks! You already wanting to meet him!! This HarleyRider guy is very good!!!!

 

[JetGirl]

Be careful JetGirl, maybe it's a way to meet chicks! You already wanting to meet him!! This HarleyRider guy is very good!!!!

Uh oh...what's that mean for poor churchmouse? Eeek.

OP, if the girl already had designs on somebody else...they were probably already in the picture.
You're better off without that kind of mess. Go do something nice for yourself.

 

[Bunnykid68]

This always makes me smile

Good luck to you sir, just try and stay busy.

 

[sassy lassy]

Be glad you got out when you did. My life is pretty much ruined. At least my ex and I get along now. Go figure.

 

[Sgtusmc]

I've had many '[STRIKE]start overs[/STRIKE]' NEW CHAPTERS over the years for various reasons. Each time, I take a deep breath, exhale and say to myself with complete acceptance, "Ahhhh, a NEW beginning".

 

[CLowe]

In a few months you will be saying
" I use to be Effin Crazy .....But we broke up "

 

[churchmouse]

Uh oh...what's that mean for poor churchmouse? Eeek.

OP, if the girl already had designs on somebody else...they were probably already in the picture.
You're better off without that kind of mess. Go do something nice for yourself.

 

[kalboy]

Hang in there Meyer it will get better, keep in mind all the good advice given by the folks above. As Churchmouse said everything happens for a reason and as Harleyrider reminded you're still young, many more chapters in your story to come yet.
It still hurts now but it will ease. Take care and keep your chin up.

 

[Bunnykid68]

And continue to talk about here or with your friends and family, do not try to get thru this alone, that will just make it more difficult.

 

[printcraft]

And continue to talk about here or with your friends and family, do not try to get thru this alone, that will just make it more difficult.

This ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

Also, does the ex have a girlfriend you can talk to?

 

[forgop]

Sounds like you could use Tom Cruise singing to you to lift you up a bit.

 

[SouthernStar25]

Hang in there! There is undoubtedly someone much better for you out there. When one door closes it's because there's a better one waiting to be opened. I believe that there is much happiness in your future and an amazing person who is out there for you.

 

[Knife Lady]

A broken heart hurts but know this comforting thought it will heal in time. Prayers are being sent your way for healing and moving on. you are still very young and you WILL survive this. In time you will be ready to date and move on and this will help you with your healing process. Chin up now.

 

[SkullDaddy.45]

This ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

Also, does the ex have a girlfriend you can talk to?

^^^^^^^^^^^^^this^^^^^^^^^^^^
cause living well is the best revenge!!

 

[spec4]

RE: above post; funny, but the best road is the high road.

 

[Mr Evilwrench]

Yeah, don't try to talk to her friends or family, nevermind boinking them. End it cleanly, or it will just get messier.

 

[RedneckReject]

Like so many of us, I've been there too. More than once. It's tough. You know in your head that you will move on and that you'll find someone else, but your heart says otherwise. That's the worst part of it. I know the feeling all too well. At this point in my life I'm glad those awful things happened to me. Not only do I have a wonderful person on my life now (well..kind of ), but having been through it, I KNOW that I will survive. If it happens again, it will hurt of course, but I can get through it a little easier simply because I now know there is a light at the end of the tunnel. Take some time doing things that you want to do. Don't just waste away and wallow in your sorrows, although I know that's probably what you want to do. Get out and have fun. I don't mean taking random people home or anything. Just go do fun stuff. Hang out with friends (that helped me a LOT). Cut her out of your life if you can. If that's not possible then make sure she knows you're doing fine and having fun. Even if you aren't, make her think you are.

 

[Hookeye]

Tis better to be alone, than to wish.

If you were honest and decent, then they did you a favor.

Just remember the cardinal rule: don't waste good booze on bad feelings.

FWIW I bought a new shotgun, got divorced (didn't know what day it was final) and killed a big tom turkey with it..........all within a 24 hr period.

SWEET!

 

[Mackey]

The World (and women) can be mean. Hang in there. It gets worse.
Just kidding.... Sort of...

 

[swampdonkey]

we alllllll been there bro! keep your chin up and spend time with close friends and family! it is never easy but dont look back, live for the next chapter! good luck dude!