I think every prudent person would do the first. However, I think it is unlikely that the second can constantly be maintained. This is something we probably will not agree on and nothing wrong with that. I see wracking a round under duress as more likely to cause a negligent discharge than leaving a chambered weapon in a holster. In a holster, a chambered and unchambered weapon are just as safe. When the weapon is in your control, your kids cannot fire it. When it is not in your control, it should be locked up. Relying on not being able to rack a slide is not safety.I tend not to put myself or family places where I would need to use my weapons. I have a heightened sense of when things are going to go wrong allowing me to extract myself and family or to chamber a round discretely before the extraction.
What in the hell is this sick crap?
I can't even say what I'm thinking...out of respect for Fenway's board.
These days I have removed myself from situations that are high risk.
When my children are aware of life and death then I will most likely reconsider my choices.