She's gonna do what she's gonna do. What the neighbor CAN do is impress upon her that mom and dad are NOT built in babysitters, and talk her into an iud. And the daily pill backup is wonderfully cheap prevention.
As a dad with girls, I feel for the neighbor. Hormones will dictate behaviour almost as much as i.q. in the absence of long term deeply instilled discipline.
As has been stated above, mom being more interested in being a buddy than a parent is instrumental also. Pay attention parents. Your kids HAVE buddies. They need parents. Preferably a strong mother AND father figure.
As a dad with girls, I feel for the neighbor. Hormones will dictate behaviour almost as much as i.q. in the absence of long term deeply instilled discipline.
As has been stated above, mom being more interested in being a buddy than a parent is instrumental also. Pay attention parents. Your kids HAVE buddies. They need parents. Preferably a strong mother AND father figure.