I have seen this plenty in counseling. The woman is selfish. She wants you to "be there" to help her, knowing she can always exploit you at a moments notice, based on the emotional currency of your heart. It will NEVER change my friend. It is not a healthy relationship for you, and in effect, you are enabling her to remain unhealthy. It is not simply confusion, 6 weeks would be a time of confusion, not years. It is time for you to realize you have invested your most precious asset in a bad place. Cut you losses and gather whatever is left of your heart and put it on the back shelf. Invest yourself in new social circles while you heal. Once you have developed healthy friendships you will become stable enough to clearly think through a healthy relationship. Your sincerity will NEVER be enough to compensate for this current womans lack of truth and decency.
** I am licensed and my Masters Degree is in Psychology, my specialty is relationship counseling you are welcome to spend $75 per half hour, but I have given you the summery of facts and actions at the Christmas special price of free**
In the big picture, "the one that got away" is only really meaningful for anyone who failed to marry Jeff Bezos 25-30 years ago.
In the big picture, "the one that got away" is only really meaningful for anyone who failed to marry Jeff Bezos 25-30 years ago.
After re-reading this thread my biggest takeaway is that mosinguy got shootered back in 2016. What happened there? I missed that one.
I remember him, but I haven't read all the way through this thread. He seemed like a good kid... I think he was only like 16 or 17 years old or something?
Remember that often times the offending posts are scrubbed.Yeah, young guy. He wasn't shootered in the thread, I just saw his comment and noticed the status. I looked through his final posts. It doesn't look like any public melt down that I could find.
Remember that often times the offending posts are scrubbed.
I didn't know he was shootered. I met him at USDS one time. Nice kid.I remember him, but I haven't read all the way through this thread. He seemed like a good kid... I think he was only like 16 or 17 years old or something?
It doesn't help to be reminded of that every day when I see an Amazon truck or warehouse; now you have to bring it up in my safe space?