I will try to apply my standards to myself; shouldn't I allow/require them to apply their standards to themselves?
If you were at a gun range with some unsafe people, would you want them to play by your standards or theirs?
If something is right, then it's not relative to whose doing or justified for me to do because someone else did it.
Thats why but Obama or But Trump doesn't justify duplicating the actions of another.
Its not speaking the language of a bully that defeats the bully. Bullying is offensive stopping a bully is defensive in an absolute sense even if one does go on the offensive it should still be done with the objective of eliminating the threat which is not usually how the bully on the playground views the bullied