anniversary

[308jake]

Today is my 11 year anniversary, and Monday it's all over. So the question is, do I call and wish her a happy anniversary or not? By the way, she's getting married again this month to my neighbor and is expecting as well. What is the etiquette for a situation like this?

 

[Indy_Guy_77]

Tase her a little.

 

[buford t justice]

I doubt there is etiquette for this situation,but making friends instead of enemies is usually
the best bet.

Good luck!!

 

[snowrs]

Wow.....I would celebrate my independence from such a woman.

 

[spec4]

Man, if there aren't any kids involved she'd be out of my life forever.

 

[IndySSD]

Today is my 11 year anniversary, and Monday it's all over. So the question is, do I call and wish her a happy anniversary or not? By the way, she's getting married again this month to my neighbor and is expecting as well. What is the etiquette for a situation like this?

Holy crap Jake... sorry to hear that... you're in a real boner of a situation for sure.

If there's no kids involved I'd say it's time to GTFO and relocate, maybe rent out your existing place to some real "problem people" if you can't sell it....

 

[littletommy]

I dealt with this several years back. I'm now married to a woman who is better than anything I could have ever hoped for. I have noticed that from about 32 to 36 are some really crazy years for some women. She will one day regret her decision, guaranteed. Just remember that for every door that closes, many many more open. I'll be out for a few hours tonight, but you are welcome to PM me if you need to unload.

 

[slimplmbr]

Call her up buddy wish her a Happy Anniversary. I'm positive she would be glad to hear from you. Heck just go across the street and tell her. Be sure to get a picture if her face when you tell her,it'll be priceless.

 

[sgreen3]

As funny as it would be to tell her. Just let it go my friend, move on an put that part of your life in the past. Thats what i did after my devorce made the transition to single life a little easier. Good luck bud

 

[fullauto 45]

I'm friends with both my ex's on Facebook. I tell them every year the dates roll around and then I post a pic of one of the girls I know now. Usually the skinny blonde in a bikini. I have no kids, but they both have kids now.

 

[CountryBoy19]

Maybe I read it wrong, but the way you worded it sounds like the divorce will be finalized on Monday?

And she is expecting?

IIRC, Indiana law says that you cannot get a divorce when the woman is expecting... maybe it's not all over Monday???

 

[308jake]

Maybe I read it wrong, but the way you worded it sounds like the divorce will be finalized on Monday?

And she is expecting?

IIRC, Indiana law says that you cannot get a divorce when the woman is expecting... maybe it's not all over Monday???

That's true if she doesn't sign off on it because it's not mine. We haven't "been together" for a year today.

 

[85t5mcss]

Dude, that sucks. I'm on my 2nd still. But, just let it go. I know it would be funny as hell, but no since in making an enemy. Don't need to be friends, either. It will all be over soon.

 

[chachi73]

let it go and be the bigger person....then go out and find some hottie to "be together" with.

You'll feel much better about yourself if you don't go over there.

I'm assuming (hoping) you have no feelings for her anymore, but the context of your post is unclear to me. I wish you luck in moving on to someone who will respect you and the relationship. I feel for you bro. take care.

 

[mcolford]

let it go and be the bigger person....then go out and find some hottie to "be together" with.

You'll feel much better about yourself if you don't go over there.

I'm assuming (hoping) you have no feelings for her anymore, but the context of your post is unclear to me. I wish you luck in moving on to someone who will respect you and the relationship. I feel for you bro. take care.

This! Its part of the "healing process." You will find another "relationship" down the road, but you gotta get out and get to know what it is exactly you are looking for. Chin up, dont call the ex, get a few friends together, go meet some girls, and move on with life. Thats at least my advice.

-MColford

 

[ATM]

You should make her something real nice to celebrate your anniversary.








Go take a crap in the neighbor's yard tonight.

 

[Bunnykid68]

If you are on speaking terms say something. If you are not on speaking terms, be the better person and send them a card congratulating them.

 

[pinshooter45]

Man, if there aren't any kids involved she'd be out of my life forever.

What He said!