To paraphrase Dr. R. C. Sproul in his expository commentary on Luke: "All men and women are my neighbors, which means, as we see in the Great Commandment, that I have to love everyone. In biblical terms, love is more a verb than a noun. I don't have to like everybody, but I need to love them...
May God bless you and your family and provide you comfort. God works his wonders in a mysterious way. I am so sorry and will send prayers to God for your reconciliation and understanding.