I can't post too much text at once, so I'm breaking it in two: Thanks for the rep and the kind thoughts. It amazes me that anyone could argue as if there were a central clearinghouse for standards of conformity for people who associate themselves with any general type of political belief, let alone a standard way to be an anarchist.
Part II: It reminds me of a young atheist with whom I attended high school. Another friend asked John what atheists believe about, well, I don't remember now. John answered that he could explain what he believed but "It isn't like we get together and agree on a standard way to believe in nothing." I loved that answer for its profundity and thoroughness in answering the question.