So, when do you think your time is up?

[flatlander]

I try to remember what my Mom said right before she died, " I didn't get to do everything I wanted to do, but, I guess I did everything I was suppose to do".
I try not to squander too much of my time. What my cardiologist tells me today at my appointment may give me a better glimpse at my timeline

My grandson said something to me one time when I was laying on the floor "taking a break" while we were playing. He said, "Bahba, you said we never quit, we never give up. Let's go" I'm going to try to live up to his expectations as long as I can.

 

[Frosty]

When my father passed in 2012 it brought it a little closer to home.
My mother has a lot of pain and has dealt with depression since I was born, she looks forward to the day she can be free of her burdens. Personally, I don’t fear death, but I don’t want to go any earlier than I need to.

 

[04FXSTS]

I'm gonna live forever. So far, so good...

That is my plan also. It has been working for 75 years so far and I am healthy and happy to be alive. Still shooting IDPA, not as well as I did ten years ago but still enjoy it just as much. Cannot imagine giving up the Springer, 2004 FXSTS, bought new in fall of 2003. I don't ride as much as I used to, does not take too many miles before my hands start to ache, arthritis. But there is still that same feeling when I roll that throttle on. Jim.

 

[DoggyDaddy]

We lost my mom on December 13th of last year. Today would've been her 100th birthday.

 

[Ironhippie]

In my youth I thought I was indestructible. Now I know I'm not.

So true, even into my 40's I thought I was the next evolution of man. Not so much any more.

 

[KG1]

Just did a system check. Still here. Cheated death another day. Onward toward tomorrow. Wish me luck.

 

[tmcindy]

One thing I've learned about growing old (I'm 60 now); getting old = living with pain. That's ok though, I still want to live. And yes, I sure wish I had taken better care of myself when I was younger, however, being bad sure was fun.

 

[stocknup]

One`s body can wear out over time , but as long as you don`t let your Faith wear out , Should have No Worries .

 

[BE Mike]

I always thought I'd die (be killed) while still in my 20's. Just goes to show you that the Lord laughs at man's plans! He has all the answers.

 

[Karl-just-Karl]

How much should be done to prolong time here? If God is calling, how much intervention should be be attempted?

I have very little family, wife left a long time ago, waning desire/never found another, no children, only a few close friends and a poor outlook for the future.

In some ways, terminal diagnosis seems like it would be a relief to me because at least the time on the clock would be narrowed down. It is coming. I accept it.

One of my friends says, "that's a young guy talking". He has a wife, children and would have liked to see grandchildren (that are very unlikely). I get his perspective. I don't believe he sees mine.

 

[Jaybird1980]

I don't know when my time is going to be up.

I do know I've been right to the edge a few times and I'm glad I was able to stick around longer. Every day I'm still on the sunny side is a blessing.

 

[wagyu52]

June 7th 2020
On borrowed time now

 

[BE Mike]

How much should be done to prolong time here? If God is calling, how much intervention should be be attempted?

I have very little family, wife left a long time ago, waning desire/never found another, no children, only a few close friends and a poor outlook for the future.

In some ways, terminal diagnosis seems like it would be a relief to me because at least the time on the clock would be narrowed down. It is coming. I accept it.

One of my friends says, "that's a young guy talking". He has a wife, children and would have liked to see grandchildren (that are very unlikely). I get his perspective. I don't believe he sees mine.

Sounds like you should discuss these feelings with your physician. Depression can be treated.

 

[spencer rifle]

My family knows how I want to go - hit by a large meteorite. No pain, no long goodbyes, and I get into the record books.

Worst case - bleeding out after I expend all my ammo shooting up the looters attacking our BOL subsequent to the whole rotten edifice coming down. But I still have a Great Advocate in the Court of the Hereafter.

Seriously, ready any time, but SWMBO wouldn't like me going first. We have all our affairs in order - wills, DPA for health and finances, living wills, prepaid funerals, all our accounts/pensions/retirement accounts/annuities prepared, executor and backup selected.

As our youngest reminds us, "We are here for a good time, not a long time."

 

[KokomoDave]

I was just reflecting back on my parents. My mom died yesterday a long time ago after emergency surgery at I. U. Med. My dad died when I was 8. My sister died when I was 14. I think back about all my surgeries and pain I have and smile. It could be worse. I could shun the world and hate the Father. Let us all remember how bad Job had it. I've got it made in the shade!

 

[Farmerjon]

I have always thought the song by Garth Brooks, "The Dance" was very well said and I try to live by it. I don't want to know, I want to live in the present. The past is past, the future is in the future, but the present is a PRESENT, to be lived and cherished.

 

[CindyE]

I try not to think about it. I really have no idea. Some days i feel like i could live forever, other days I worry if i have some terminal illness i don't know about yet.
I used to cause myself a lot of anxiety about dying when i was younger. We have some longevity in the family, but also some not-so-long. My dad died at 64.
I've taken decent care of myself over the years, other than too much alcohol at times, and allowing myself to gain weight. Some risky behavior at times. Work hard/play hard used to be my motto. Now i have some issues with my foot and i can't do all the things i used to.
Approaching a milestone birthday, and although i'm told i've aged well, i don't see it when i look in the mirror.
i have young grandkids, my daughter waited later then most to start a family, (good decision, really) so i want to enjoy them.
I want to retire and get myself in better shape, make time to enjoy my hobbies more.
I have no idea when my time is up, but i hope it is a long time from now and the years will be kind to me and my loved ones.

 

[churchmouse]

This is one of the few threads I have ever read all the way through. It is enlightening to see how we all look at the inevitable. I am moved and also humbled.

When I was immortal (young) I refused to see ever slowing down. Just was not in my game plan. Sleep when you die.
I continued this mind set into my 50’s until I lost my oldest son to Cancer on my Birthday at 52 years old. Game changer.
I still took life on full throttle but I could see the effects and had to meter myself as the clock advanced. Spent far more time with my family.
Now I can pretty much see the light at the not so far end of the tunnel. Yes, it is a diesel electric head light and it’s waiting for me.
Again, every day is a gift. Never pass an opportunity to let your family know how you feel. Don’t waste a minute. You will never get that minute back.

 

[tomcat13]

I Don't Know what my Future holds, but I Know Who Holds my Future!

 

[yeahbaby]

I try not to dwell on death much. When my time is up, it is.

In recent years, I have made noticeable adjustments in diet and exercise to fight to stay fit and mobile. The further I go, the better I feel. When I get lazy about it, I feel that too.

I'm in better shape that I was five years ago. A lot better shape. I intend to keep going. There is a ton of information online and it gets added to daily. I try to stay abreast and keep adding to my routine.


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I'm doing the same routine. Turned 66 last February. I work out 3 to 4 days per week. I have a variety of resistance bands that I use for various exercises. Throw in some free weights and core exercises. Once the weather turns I'll be biking a lot. Keep up the good work!