Why not?
When the avoidance of war becomes the goal in and of itself, it ceases being diplomacy and absolutely becomes appeasement. So, yes, in one sense, you're absolutely right that this country no longer understands diplomacy.
Crap, forgot to add: Elsie--good to hear.
That was one of the points that I heard Vice President Cheney making on one of the Sunday shows. Even if you have no intention of using military force, you don't tell people that. It has to be something that remains as one of your options. Look how compliant Khaddafy became with the US and UN inspectors immediately after the the Iraq invasion. He renounced his nuclear program and funding terrorist organizations. Under the Bush doctrine he was fearful that he could be next.