I'm not trying to railroad things here but what exactly are you out doing that puts you into "sticky situations" or that might have gotten your "unarmed *** kicked"? you know the old saying: if you go looking for trouble, your bound to find it.I also may or may not have thrown myself into sticky situations when she was around, and she went from "Why do you need that" to "Im glad you carry"
but that was my approach, and I almost got my unarmed A** kicked a couple of times, so I don't recommend it.
And no, I don't do that now that I carry, It was more of a prove a point type thing.