I've been talking to my fiancee recently about her getting a gun and a LTCH. Every time the subject comes up, she tells me that not everyone in the world is out to do bad things or do harm to her. I like being prepared for any situation. I carry every day everywhere it's legal for me to do so. I hope I'll never have to use my gun, but I know that the world is not full of good people, fluffy bunnies, and unicorns as she seems to think. She has no problems with me owning guns, carrying a gun, or hunting and shooting. When I ask her if she wants a gun, she tells me she wants her mom's .357 magnum revolver. She's never shot it and I don't think she realises, she may not want to ever again, once she shoots it the first time. All of the guns of mine she's shot, have been .22's and 9mm's. She says she doesn't want to get a LTCH and that she won't carry a gun because she knows she won't shoot anyone. When I asked her, what if you were out shopping one day, and two guys followed you into the mall's bathroom and tried to pin you against the wall to do God knows what to you? You wouldn't want a LTCH and a gun then? She didn't have a response for me except that, "That's not a likely situation that will ever happen to me." The only good news is that she's interested in taking a couple classes (only if I go too) about home safety/home defense as well as handgun basics, etc. I've been looking at a couple of the classes offered at Indy Gun Safety for her to take. But I really need some suggestions/advice on how to deal with her ignorance on this subject. For once, I'd like to not hear her tell me she was wrong when something bad happens to her. Any help here would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.