First off I have been praying and will continue to do so.
Before my dad passed he got so weak he couldn't turn the key in the ignition to start the car. Problem solved you say? No, he had a remote starter installed.
He lived in Florida and his three oldest children live here in Indiana. My sister found out and called my brother and said, "someone needs to take his keys away!"
My brother says, "He will disinherit you."
Sis says, "but what if something happens?"
Brother, "we don't know anyone down there..."
Moral of the story is we never had to get to that point and nothing bad happened by grace alone. There are consequences to every decision made and until you have a plan to supply her transportation needs for her it would be short sighted and problematic to pronounce a ultimatum without her input.
Openly talk, with the whole family present, to come to any resolve to this problem. Try to keep your mom active in the decision making process and have all express their concerns. Be ready and maintain your readiness for your part in the agreement, if you all don't keep up your part there is no reason to expect her to keep up hers...
Before my dad passed he got so weak he couldn't turn the key in the ignition to start the car. Problem solved you say? No, he had a remote starter installed.
He lived in Florida and his three oldest children live here in Indiana. My sister found out and called my brother and said, "someone needs to take his keys away!"
My brother says, "He will disinherit you."
Sis says, "but what if something happens?"
Brother, "we don't know anyone down there..."
Moral of the story is we never had to get to that point and nothing bad happened by grace alone. There are consequences to every decision made and until you have a plan to supply her transportation needs for her it would be short sighted and problematic to pronounce a ultimatum without her input.
Openly talk, with the whole family present, to come to any resolve to this problem. Try to keep your mom active in the decision making process and have all express their concerns. Be ready and maintain your readiness for your part in the agreement, if you all don't keep up your part there is no reason to expect her to keep up hers...