I don't want my insurance ot pay anything out so that my insurance would go up. With my Jeep as a back up vehicle, I got a vehicle to get around until they do their stuff and determine fault.
This. You can work with your insurance to get the car repaired and then your insurance company will go after her insurance company for the reimbursement. I've done this several times. I simply pay my deductible, get the repair done and then get the deductible back when the insurance companies settle up. These type of claims do not count against you unless you are determined to be at fault. Your insurance company will also fight that battle for you as well.that's not how insurance works. If she is found at fault, nothing will be paid by your insurance in the end. Go talk to your insurance.
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