I typed a word, forbidden in some contexts and acceptable in others. The word stood alone. Therefore my being banned for it was at the discretion of the mod swinging the hammer. Judge, jury, and executioner (just like the INGO FAQ says).
Post at your own risk.
Believe me, I understand where you're coming from. I got an infraction for using a politically incorrect word shortly after the "use the language filter" rule was rolled out. I pointed out that my naughty word wasn't in the filter and asked if it was going to be added. To this day, my naughty word isn't in the filter and it's used without repercussions. Oh well, life goes on. You want to stay? Let it go...