I'm trying to answer a message that didn't give me the ability to respond.
It's not yours or the children's fault she left. Don't believe it. Even if she said hateful words blaming you, it's no one's fault but hers.
Although it doesn't appear to happen a lot some moms do abandon their young children.
I can give you first hand experience why Mom's cut off adult children but not innocent young children.
As a mother we are wired to nurture. It's in our DNA. Or at least that's how it is supposed to be.
Feeling that child kick and grow inside our body typically creates an instant bond and intense love. You almost have to be soulless to not feel it.
Sadly some mothers do far worse then abandon their children. In our surrounding area news a few weeks ago a mother murdered her three young children because her boyfriend didn't want them.
Sadly some women view their children as nothing more than pawns to get what they want. When they are no longer useful they are discarded.
Mothers like this do not truly connect or bond with the children or anyone else. They're actually just skilled actors.
Mentally healthy women do not do things like this. Some people do not have the capacity to love or care for other human beings or living things.
It's a personality defect. It's what true narcissism is. It is like these people have hollow souls.
Throw in a pinch of sociopath and/or psychopath and you have a horrible person.
News flash for those of you who haven't yet seen it firsthand. Some people get their jollies by hurting other people. They enjoy your misery and will do everything in their power to create more of it.
There are people out there who delight in doing rotten things and feel no remorse for their evil doing. They are Satan's disciples.
If someone like this has abandoned you and the children, count your lucky stars and thank the Lord. The trash has taken itself out.
You do not realize how lucky you are that she has left you instead of staying and emotionally abusing and destroying all of you.
In honor of Easter please break these chains of guilt and be reborn. Reading up on personality disorders and the game plans many abusers follow might help you with your healing.
God Bless, Happy Easter
It's not yours or the children's fault she left. Don't believe it. Even if she said hateful words blaming you, it's no one's fault but hers.
Although it doesn't appear to happen a lot some moms do abandon their young children.
I can give you first hand experience why Mom's cut off adult children but not innocent young children.
As a mother we are wired to nurture. It's in our DNA. Or at least that's how it is supposed to be.
Feeling that child kick and grow inside our body typically creates an instant bond and intense love. You almost have to be soulless to not feel it.
Sadly some mothers do far worse then abandon their children. In our surrounding area news a few weeks ago a mother murdered her three young children because her boyfriend didn't want them.
Sadly some women view their children as nothing more than pawns to get what they want. When they are no longer useful they are discarded.
Mothers like this do not truly connect or bond with the children or anyone else. They're actually just skilled actors.
Mentally healthy women do not do things like this. Some people do not have the capacity to love or care for other human beings or living things.
It's a personality defect. It's what true narcissism is. It is like these people have hollow souls.
Throw in a pinch of sociopath and/or psychopath and you have a horrible person.
News flash for those of you who haven't yet seen it firsthand. Some people get their jollies by hurting other people. They enjoy your misery and will do everything in their power to create more of it.
There are people out there who delight in doing rotten things and feel no remorse for their evil doing. They are Satan's disciples.
If someone like this has abandoned you and the children, count your lucky stars and thank the Lord. The trash has taken itself out.
You do not realize how lucky you are that she has left you instead of staying and emotionally abusing and destroying all of you.
In honor of Easter please break these chains of guilt and be reborn. Reading up on personality disorders and the game plans many abusers follow might help you with your healing.
God Bless, Happy Easter