Male Friend Dresses in Women's Clothing!

[HoughMade]

The high heels...I don't get the high heels. Most women I know, even those who wear them from time to time do NOT want to wear high heels. As a size 13+ with a touch or peripheral neuropathy, this sounds like torture.

Wait....masochistic?

 

[Doug]

And...in case you think he can't be a "Real Man," here's Sean Connery in a wedding dress:

 

[DoggyDaddy]

Probably some quirk rooted in his childhood. As long as he's not hanging out in bars picking up guys (or gals, in today's world), I don't think it's a problem. A little weird, maybe, but some guys carry 5 shot revolvers...


Apply to purple to the last part, if you want.

 

[BigRed]

So my friend (male) of over 30 years in his mid-50's, according to his wife has been caught by her dressing in women's lingerie and high heels. This is not someone you would ever expect something like this from. His wife told my wife this has been going on for some time and she has no idea why. I haven't seen him since finding out but it's really got me baffled.

So what are your thoughts? How common is this? What possible reason would someone get pleasure from it? I wish I didn't know now. Thus is really eating at me.

Ask him out for drinks and see what he says....maybe throw a dinner in for good measure.

 

[armalitesheepdog]

Whats wrong with a 5 shot revolver. as long as its a .32......

 

[BigRed]

Nope I ain't gonna do it.


She says he just said it's not hurting anyone. Still baffling.

Does his wife use one of those tools? What's it called? Something like Snap On or some such thing.

 

[JCSR]

Whats wrong with a 5 shot revolver. as long as its a .32......

Don't turn this into a "gay" thread.

 

[Doug]

Whats wrong with a 5 shot revolver. as long as its a .32......

 

[target64]

I would not worry about it. Not my spouse, not my house.

 

[wcd]

If it’s not too late my advice would be treat it as an A B conversation and C your way totally out of it.

 

[BigRed]

Whats wrong with a 5 shot revolver. as long as its a .32......

With pearl grips?

 

[Lpherr]

Does his wife use one of those tools? What's it called? Something like Snap On or some such thing.

Belt sold separately...



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[pute62]

But is he hot?

 

[Creedmoor]

Every human has kinks and or fetishes.
Every human.

 

[BigRed]

Thus is really eating at me.

Are you concerned that after all these years of being friends maybe to him it's just a physical thing?

 

[Max Volume]

Maybe he likes the feel of nylons touching his privates and his wife won't accommodate him.

 

[Hoosierdood]

Well there was this one time...

Shortly after my wife and I got married, we were in the bedroom. I removed my pants and handed them to her and told her to try them on. She said "Those are your pants, and I'll never fit into them." I told her to remember that and that I wear the pants in this family.

She quickly dropped her panties and told me to try them on. I said "Are you crazy, woman? I'm never getting in your panties!"

Her reply, "And you never will with that attitude."

 

[Itchytriggerfinger]

I'd be more worried what your wife is telling his wife.

 

[Snapdragon]

So my friend (male) of over 30 years in his mid-50's, according to his wife has been caught by her dressing in women's lingerie and high heels. This is not someone you would ever expect something like this from. His wife told my wife this has been going on for some time and she has no idea why. I haven't seen him since finding out but it's really got me baffled.

So what are your thoughts? How common is this? What possible reason would someone get pleasure from it? I wish I didn't know now. Thus is really eating at me.

No big deal. What he does in private (or even in public) is his choice as long as it's not hurting anyone.

 

[wcd]

No big deal. What he does in private (or even in public) is his choice as long as it's not hurting anyone.

Private yes, Public not so much.