Sounds like some "parents" I know these days.One thing the academy is very good at doing is making you feel like you're smart and valued, intrinsically, just for existing and participating. That goes away when you hit the real world. Very easy to be tempted into going back, thinking you'll feel that way again.
Next thing you know, you're in your 30s and owe $200,000 and have no worthwhile skills or experience.