What is the correct response? (alternate title: keeping your pimp hand strong)

[snapping turtle]

Context is critical.

If she is a hooker and he is the pimp then all things are open. (Sounds like an argument about money but I only speak redneck and English)

If she is his girlfriend and he is the boyfriend then he should have just taken the hit and walked away without the smack down.

If she is the girlfriend and the man where she landed is the boyfriend then it should be on like donkey Kong between those two.

If this is just some crazy b in a bar all drunk Ed out then it is justified so to speak. Not the way I was raised but by accepted gender standards and to some extent the law.

 

[MindfulMan]

Anymore, I don't believe much that I don't see in person. Is it possible that this entire encounter was staged ?

 

[mcapo]

Anymore, I don't believe much that I don't see in person. Is it possible that this entire encounter was staged ?

What????

If I have learned anything from INGO it is that EVERYTHING on the interweb is truthful and accurate.

 

[SheepDog4Life]

to answer your question, no, I don't think there is anyway the male doesn't take a loss (in America), if he hits her the world will see him as a abuser, weak or what ever ( and maybe doing to jail) but if he stands there and takes it he's a p###y.

Women have gotten away with putting their hands on men for so long it has become acceptable, I have arrested women for domestic battery and every time I get something like "you cant arrest me I'm a woman" said to me.

Well, for starters, she was telegraphing that slap for at least two steps, so it would have been reasonably easy to slip it or block it.
She may have tried a few more, and again, forearm blocks might have worked until she either tired, or could no longer ignore the pain in her own forearms.
No telling if she would try further escalation, but if the man actually strikes her, he's 90% sure to take the "L", IMO.
Defensive blocks can usually wear them out, and frustrate them to a point where they break off the physical attack. Also, if the 5-0 does get involved, all marks are on the outside of his forearms and the inside of hers, making it pretty easy to assess who was the aggressor, and who was defending, even without eyewitness testimony.
I agree that she wasn't acting like a lady, but you'll still get the hook if you strike her. Especially if she is known to you.
Now, if a weapon is displayed, or it becomes a life threatening situation before you can just leave, then knock the b**ch out.

^^^ These ^^^

Block until she wears out or just plain leave... doubly so if she's a person known to you.

I turned on the volume and everything sounds Russian... so I agree in that context, and speculating in that COUNTRY, she was lucky it was open hand.

Here in the USA, if cops get involved, dude likely goes to jail when she points to the big red handprint on her face. Also, ponder if she doesn't get up... you know, a part of why men don't hit women, they're smaller and more fragile... either needs an ambulance or the coroner... not just jail, prison.

Beyond living by a code, do you really want to give crazy ***** that kind of power over your life? Useful to ponder now rather than in a jail/prison cell.

 

[J Galt]

What????

If I have learned anything from INGO it is that EVERYTHING on the interweb is truthful and accurate.

 

[J Galt]

Anymore, I don't believe much that I don't see in person. Is it possible that this entire encounter was staged ?

Anything is possible. However, that looked like 2 real strikes. First, woman strikes man. Second, man executes pimp slap.

 

[J Galt]

. . . Useful to ponder now rather than in a jail/prison cell.

This is the main reason for the post.

It seems like, in general, women are adopting more masculine characteristics, including the propensity for violence. It seems very possible that violence initiated by women will increase. This seems especially possible with males adopting more feminine traits. Obviously not that guy.

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No offense to anyone, those who are saying just walk away or just block have not dealt with people out of control of their emotions and been reduced to violent attacks on another person.

 

[SheepDog4Life]

This is the main reason for the post.

It seems like, in general, women are adopting more masculine characteristics, including the propensity for violence. It seems very possible that violence initiated by women will increase. This seems especially possible with males adopting more feminine traits. Obviously not that guy.

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No offense to anyone, those who are saying just walk away or just block have not dealt with people out of control of their emotions and been reduced to violent attacks on another person.

I have, on more than one occasion, and again, beyond the code instilled in me by Dad, I'm not going to let crazy ***** have that kind of control over my life and future.

Crazy enough to go into a slap-fest, crazy enough to call the cops on your *** if you respond in kind... Venn diagram with almost complete overlap.

ETA: Ask yourself, who's *****ing their pants if the cops do get called?

 

[pitbulld45]

everyone is assuming she is a woman, they/them may identified as a cross dressing male

Yes, I have taught my son not to hit a woman but also taught my daughter not to hit a man


I feel there are very few reasons to get physically violent regardless of gender period!

 

[J Galt]

I have, on more than one occasion, and again, beyond the code instilled in me by Dad, I'm not going to let crazy ***** have that kind of control over my life and future.

Crazy enough to go into a slap-fest, crazy enough to call the cops on your *** if you respond in kind... Venn diagram with almost complete overlap.

ETA: Ask yourself, who's *****ing their pants if the cops do get called?

I have to admit, I'm not sure what you're saying here.

Keep in mind, I'm not advocating any particular response. My original post was: "When a woman acts like a man, with respect to violence, is there any response that does not result in the man taking an "L"?"

 

[Cameramonkey]

Anything is possible. However, that looked like 2 real strikes. First, woman strikes man. Second, man executes pimp slap.

"real" strikes. But not necessarily a real encounter.

Some people are so fame/click money hungry they will do things that hurt. Just look at the Jack*** movies. They're doing stuff that puts them in the hospital to make millions.

 

[SheepDog4Life]

I have to admit, I'm not sure what you're saying here.

Keep in mind, I'm not advocating any particular response. My original post was: "When a woman acts like a man, with respect to violence, is there any response that does not result in the man taking an "L"?"

The video had people speaking Russian, likely though not positively in Russia.

Here is the USA, this scenario is often a crazy ***** who "knows" that she can get away with it because she's a woman (if it's domestic and the dude stays calm, she's in for a surprise as one of our resident LEO's indicated upthread).

Bat**** crazy ***** sees it it as a no lose, only win, scenario. You don't respond, she gets to slap you for free. You do respond, especially in kind or like in the video, she now owns your *** because with that big red mark on her face... you ARE going to jail.

In her bat**** crazy mind, that's even better.

 

[J Galt]

"real" strikes. But not necessarily a real encounter.

Some people are so fame/click money hungry they will do things that hurt. Just look at the Jack*** movies. They're doing stuff that puts them in the hospital to make millions.

Are you really arguing about if this is real? This may be a crazy question, but why argue that? What bearing does that have on the original question? Sincere questions, no purple involved.

Sure. Staged scenario then. A scenario that has played out in life countless times.

The original question still stands: When a woman acts like a man, with respect to violence, is there any response that does not result in the man taking an "L"?

 

[Expat]

I don’t think I would have smacked her back, but I don’t think I fault hime for smacking her back. She decided to **** around and find out.

 

[Cameramonkey]

Are you really arguing about if this is real? This may be a crazy question, but why argue that? What bearing does that have on the original question? Sincere questions, no purple involved.

Sure. Staged scenario then. A scenario that has played out in life countless times.

The original question still stands: When a woman acts like a man, with respect to violence, is there any response that does not result in the man taking an "L"?

Just expanding on the comments earlier about it being staged, since people like to do stuff for clicks is all. Just a passing comment, nothing to get hung up over.

 

[J Galt]

Just expanding on the comments earlier about it being staged, since people like to do stuff for clicks is all. Just a passing comment, nothing to get hung up over.

I was asking a sincere question (for clarification) to see if there was another perspective I was missing. I guess that can be interpreted as "hung up".

 

[pitbulld45]

SO lets change the scene a bit, what if he was 100lbs and she was 200lbs, does that make a difference?

What if it was a frying pan and not her hand?

Should a man NEVER hit a woman (this for those saying to walk away, block etc..).

Above was mentioned that men don't hit women because of size difference and damage that can be done. is it truly a size issue or a gender issue?

 

[Rookie]

I taught my daughters that if they were man enough to throw a punch, then they better be man enough to take a punch.

 

[DeadeyeChrista'sdad]

Orrrr....

 

[patience0830]

Well, thats not what our father taught his sons. Just like we taught our sons, dont put
your hands on a woman. Walk away.
Its not like his life was in danger...
Walk away.

Your life, your standards. I adhere to my Dad's words as long as they continue to make sense in my life. Sometimes it is necessary to make a different judgement.