OP, I don't think you did anything wrong. Putting your hand on your holstered weapon is not a crime despite what some want you to believe.
Good Situational Awareness. Good use of your car to get out of harm's way.
Question: what would you have done if the guy had started banging on your car or attempting to break in through the window? Was it dark outside? would have been better to stay inside the store and let the employee know that there is a man outside with a weapon loitering around the front? what about when you first saw the guy and thought you saw a weapon... You could have turned around going back in your car and went to the next liquor store down the street I assume but why didn't you?
Come on Biscuit....he was thirsty.....
I had a guy approach me the other night at a dark gas station as I exited my vehicle. He came up and said that he was trying to get home and asked if I had $3 for a gallon of gas. I looked him up and down, made careful observation of his hands... then I told him to pull up to pump #1 and i would go in and prepay for $3 of gas. He thanked me and that was it.
I didn't put my hand on my gun or run away.
Seriously.....you were not in an area described by the OP.
not to mention he didn't just see the same guy pull out a shanking tool and try to stab the building.
The OP stated that there was a drunk guy tapping on the exterior of the liquor store with some sort of spike. This drunk guy approaches the OP a few seconds later with the oldest ploy on the books prior to a mugging, i.e. asking for a light, a few dollars, etc. He also ignores the OP's first order to cease his advances. While I don't think it was time to draw a weapon, I think the OP would have been a fool to not try and keep some distance between him and the drunken individual.
Frankly, for a retired LEO who has been there a few times like you have claimed, I am a little surprised at how you are making light of the OP's concern for his physical safety. In my opinion, the conditions were "right" for things to get bad quickly. I don't see where the OP did anything wrong by making an effort to keep on high alert in order to avoid making things easy for a possible mugger.
OP never stated a ' order to stop advancing ' how does that work ?????
STOP walking towards me asking for money !!!!! Or I will pull out my pistol ???
Its only a threat in your mind....That man did nothing in a threating manner towards the OP.
OP said no weapons could be seen at that time..
If OP was concerned about his personal safety, He never should have gotten out of his truck in the beginning..
It was nothing more than a man bumming some change for a drink.....
And let's again read the last sentence the OP wrote,
P.S.S. Wrote this after drinking all 6 beer
I had a guy approach me the other night at a dark gas station as I exited my vehicle. He came up and said that he was trying to get home and asked if I had $3 for a gallon of gas. I looked him up and down, made careful observation of his hands... then I told him to pull up to pump #1 and i would go in and prepay for $3 of gas. He thanked me and that was it.
I didn't put my hand on my gun or run away.
AGAIN?!-Never post after drinking a 6 pack.
-Never get on Brownells site after drinking a 6 pack.
-Never post after drinking a 6 pack.
-Never get on Brownells site after drinking a 6 pack.
Then when am I suppose to post?
-Never post after drinking a 6 pack.
-Never get on Brownells site after drinking a 6 pack.
That might be hard on a credit card... hahahahahahaa
Is this how it went, I'll take this ...and this. And thisss...anddd gotta have 2 of these and a hour later ...checkout time.
Given law enforcements propensity of killing innocent unarmed citizens for offenses ranging from selling single cigarettes to seatbelt violations, I somehow question your expertise on matters regarding self control and escalation of force. I also question your having survived a career in law enforcement for any amount of time if you held yourself to the same rules of engagement as you did the OP. If I were in the same situation I would have been equally concerned. The guy was simulating an act of violence with a weapon less then two minutes prior to approaching him. If that isn't a reason to elevate your awareness and assert yourself, I don't know what is.
-Never post after drinking a 6 pack.
-Never get on Brownells site after drinking a 6 pack.