We (the collective "we") struggle to be good parents today. There are so many ways for our children to be hurt, even in religious settings, that it remains very difficult to safeguard the kids. Wifey and I really, really struggled over how to address this particular situation with our kids because of a local LEO that was in trouble for inappropriateness with underage females. There was also a freshman at our high school that was removed from school property in handcuffs because he wouldn't answer questions from a LEO that involved a friend of the kids using/possessing drugs. The LEO was trying to tie the drugs to this kid.