Hoosierdood
Grandmaster
Agreed on the culture and I would guarantee that you take two people from that culture of different race/ethnicity don't care what two they would relate to and understand each other better than I ever would.
And this is exactly the point that I was making up thread. It's not always about race. While African Americans predominately gather in urban communities, there are many that grew up in rural communities like the ones that I was raised in. People who grew up in similar environments and experiences can relate to each other, regardless of race. I can understand the differences in people who experienced different cultures, but I definitely can't relate.
The problem comes when woke culture demands that we relate to these different cultures at the risk of being called racist. That's impossible. I'm not racist simply because I can't relate to your culture. And I won't call you racist because you can't relate to my culture.
I try to treat everyone the same, even if they are different from me. I judge them on their merits of honesty, integrity, and work ethic. And if you lack in any of those areas, you better believe that I will judge you and dislike you for it. But woke culture would tell me I'm racist because of this.