- Nov 3, 2008
He's 20 and renting a house from us that's 2 hours from the hacienda. Wish it was that easy.I agree with WT, identifying and acknowledging the problem is huge! You love him and want to help him - this kid has so much going for him! Trying to find out what someone likes, especially a kid, isn't very easy because they may not know. I would suggest taking him everywhere and doing everything with him. As you do things with him tell him how you feel about things, what you like and didn't like, and if something brings back memories of something tell about that story. When you start finding little sparks of interests then it will help fine-tuning a passion for something.