I also started out this journey mostly training with those types. While I enjoyed the training and being from a military family, I was cool with the methods, I realized in 2021 that better training would be more focused on competition, not defense.I hear you. From what I understand he is ex.mil and current LE so there you go. Everyone wants to train with those kind of people it seems whether what they are teaching is relevant to your mission or not. I fell into that trap myself years back when I was training with all of the Delta/SOF guys. Some of them got it, some of them didn't.
I didn't find any such training, but maybe this next year.