I have a Flex. I'm a wagon guy and there aren't many to choose from unless you go German. If your wife could get passed the looks of it, it is a great vehicle.
Don't forget the Suby's. I was never a wagon guy - always drove a pickup. Last Friday I hauled 1000 pounds of paper out to Valpo, and on Saturday cruised to Wisconsin and got 28 mpg there and back, with a load of stuff for my son and his family.
Also has nearly 300 ft pounds of torque, with the turbo. If it lasts, I'll probably drive a Subaru for a long time. I won't say they're stylish by any means, but I don't think they're totally fugly.
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