Yup...they dodge the question because the correct response is...'I would (probably) do exactly what Kyle Rittenhouse did, in protecting my life against valid and violent attackers!'Then there are a lot of people that will try to use a deflected argument and that is if they were in Kyle's shoes they wouldn't have been there in the first place. They'll avoid the intended context of your question.
To say they would do anything different is to say they have an unrealistic viewpoint or response to an actual and active attack against their life!